Porn star Hayley Davies has lifted the lid on her sex life, both in a personal and professional capacity.
Despite having only been in the adult industry for ten months, Hayley has already amassed a huge following online.
She boasts a million followers on Instagram and has now slept with hundreds of men (both inside out and outside of work).
With her vast experience in mind, Hayley is giving some insight into her sexual escapades and sharing tips with men who want to please their partners in the bedroom.
One key thing Hayley believes most women want and need is foreplay.
“Women need to be teased,” she said. “We need foreplay and I think a lot of men just stick to the boring stuff when it comes to foreplay, like you need to really take your time, kiss the whole body, caress the inner thigh, soft touches, grabbing in the right places.”
“You just really need to get them begging for it,” Hayley added.
She also shared what she believes to be the key difference between ‘boys and men’.
Hayley is fairly new to the adult industry but already has a huge following. (Supplied)
“A big part of the problem is they don’t really seem to care to learn what a woman wants… It’s the difference between boys and men,” the porn star revealed.
“Men really care about pleasing a woman and won’t c*m until the woman has c*m and then there’s boys, who go into sex with the intention of finishing themselves off.
“They don’t care if it’s only been two minutes or if the woman is close.”
Hayley is also a huge advocate of oral sex and told men who are reluctant to go down on their partner to ‘grow the f**k up’.
While having a bit of experience can usually work in a man’s favor, Hayley admitted that some of the least experienced people she’s slept with have been the best.
Hayley shared the ‘difference between boys and men’. (Supplied)
The adult star said: “Some of the best sex of my life was with a virgin. I think the great thing about younger, inexperienced guys is that you can train them.
“If you want to get better in bed, you have to have the confidence to communicate. It might feel funny in the moment but don’t be afraid to ask questions and ask your partner if what you’re doing feels good and what they enjoy.”
As the age old saying goes: If you don’t ask, you don’t get…
A new scientific quiz can reveal how ‘kinky’ you really are amid ongoing studies surrounding sexual behavior.
Sexual studies are certainly not few and far between, with the vast majority of them shedding new light on activities in the bedroom.
Well, a brand new sex study is now providing curious individuals the opportunity to measure their personal level of kink.
But first, what does the term kink actually mean?
The quiz reveals how ‘kinky’ you are. (Getty Stock Photo)
The dictionary describes it as “unconventional sexual preferences or behavior collectively.”
Examples of such include the exchange of power, aka domination/submission, while those who are kinky may also decide to experiment with multiple partners.
Researchers at the University of Brighton in the UK have been working on a study about kinks in recent times.
The latest report, which has been published in the Journal of Sex Research, lifts the lid on the stigma surrounding kink.
Researchers came up with the Kink Orientation Scale, which they hope can encourage more inclusive studies in the coming years.
How kinky do you consider yourself? (Getty Stock Image)
Typically, sexual studies rely on those who have identified themselves as ‘kinky’ rather than folks who may just be interested in the idea.
Those hoping to be involved can do so pretty easily as there are only 18 questions in the survey.
The test is focused on five areas of kinkiness: Identity, paraphernalia, community, practices and communication.
Once completed, you will then be ranked on a 90-point scale, with the greater the number, the more kinky you supposedly are.
The kinky scale is available on PsyPost.org, if you are curious enough.
The quiz is online now! (Getty Stock Photo)
As for other research done in the same area, a study conducted this year revealed that being choked during sex could lead to brain damage.
The study conducted by sexual and reproductive health researcher, Dr. Debby Herbinick, found women who had been choked four times in the last 30 days experienced cognitive changes which impacted their memory.
The study stated: “While unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections remain important public health issues, recent studies identified that sexual choking/strangulation or choking a partner during sex, which is a form of manual or ligature strangulation, has become prevalent among adolescents and young adults, disproportionally affecting women.”
The study went on to say that people engage in choking during sex due to the ‘pleasant or euphoric feeling’ resulting from the return of blood flow and oxygen to the brain after the choking finishes.
However, you really don’t want to be trying it.
How would you feel about filming your own girlfriend while she’s banging other guys? For Bang Bros’ youngest director, it’s complicated.
When Logan Xander, from Florida went on The Bougie Show on YouTube in 2022 to talk about the porn industry, it quickly began to revolve around his romantic life outside of being an x-rated actor and director.
The 24-year-old is the porn company’s youngest director and has been dating fellow porn star Valerica Steele for some time.
The award-winner has also performed in and produced multiple videos for adult film , but one thing he’s had to do is direct his own girlfriend with other men.
But if you thought he was the jealous type, think again.
“She was already established by the time we started dating,” the young director admitted.
“I like had no interest in entering that at all.”
The sex director chose to work in the industry at 18. (YouTube/The Bougie Show)
He continued: “It don’t bother me either. I didn’t think that I would be able to accept it as much as I have been able to.
“But it really don’t bother me.”
He went on to say that if the male star was ‘gonna hold back because I’m there’, he’s not going to be happy.
He explained that as the director, he wants ‘the scene to be good’, and so he wants everyone to really go for it, like they would with any other director.
Xander said that by being a porn performer himself, he understands that the ‘mindset’ of sleeping with another performer on camera.
He also said that when compared to the girl he is dating, it’s completely different.
Just as he feels differently, he knows she does too when she’s having sex with another man.
He also didn’t want ‘to get in the way of her bag’ by making her only sleep with him on camera as it could majorly impact her career as the host agreed that men don’t want to watch a woman who only sleeps with one man.
But even though he understands the industry and actively sought it out to make a career out of, he knows there are a lot of downsides too.
Logan Xander is not the jealous type (YouTube/The Bougie Show)
Namely, he can’t jerk off to videos like he used to.
He explained: “Now I know all of the dudes I’m not going to jerk to my homies d**k.
“Sometimes I’ll think I’ve found a good video and then… I can recognise d**ks now.
“So I’m like ‘goddammit’. So I have to turn it off.”
Previously speaking to LADbible, Xander explained that he had been trying to break into porn as fast as he could.
He shared: “I was actively looking for work in this industry for a while – pretty much as soon as I turned 18.
“By the time I was 19 there was a job posting for an editing position for the company, and I applied and got hired.
“I was, and still am, the youngest person with the company, and I worked hard and wanted to start directing.
“Eventually once I started directing I was opening up to the idea of being on camera, and then it all just went up from there.
“I love it and have really been enjoying my time and the work I do, despite some negative backlash people have due to outdated stigmas with regard to this industry.”